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How to develop perseverance in a small child

Tatyana, the mother of 9-year-old Xenia, says: “Last night I needed to complete an urgent work assignment. I had already done almost everything and was going to finally send the report by e-mail, but the mail did not want to be sent. Usually I am a calm person, but this situation made me seriously angry. And at that moment Ksyusha entered the room. She saw that I was annoyed, patted me on the shoulder and said: “Don’t give up, mom. Try again. I’m sure that you will succeed. ”

In the end, I sent the mail. But at the same time, I thought about how important persistence is for children. Each person is faced with situations where, in order to achieve the goal, it is simply necessary to remain calm and persevere. But for young children who still do not know how much, it is almost impossible. This is now my daughter can be persistent, if necessary. But it took a lot of time and effort to teach her this. ”

To develop persistence and perseverance in a child should be from an early age. And parents play a huge role in the formation of these qualities. Let’s consider a few recommendations that will help parents develop perseverance in a small child.

Develop skills

One of the reasons why children are upset and do not finish what they have begun is because they do not have the necessary skills, and that is why the work seems too complicated for them. Preschoolers are still not fully developed motor skills, speech and executive functions. Even the simplest tasks seem to be extremely difficult for children: they can hardly hold a spoon, dress or open the door. It is not surprising that in such cases, children are upset, up to tantrums.

While the child develops the necessary skills, you can save him from emotional disorders, simplifying his life. For example, buy loose clothing for him that will be easier for your child to wear, Velcro shoes, not laces, etc. Make sure that the chair on which the baby usually sits while eating is strong and stable. Put plastic glasses and snacks in a place where the child can get them. Show him how to open the door, as well as the water in the tap. If the lack of any skills upsets the child, ask yourself: “How can I teach this child?”.

Do not rush to intervene

On the one hand, you do not want to ignore the emotions of the child when he is in tears. On the other hand, if you immediately intervene in such cases, the child will think that you will always protect him from all difficulties. If a child is a little upset because they cannot handle a task, cheer him up with a nod of his head or advice.

Then continue to do your own thing, but watch the child. This will make him understand that you are always ready to help him, but believe that he can handle it himself. It is worth interfering only when the child has done everything possible to complete the task, and is on the verge of hysteria.

Praise the baby

Nothing inspires a child more than praise in the case when he managed to do something. Pay attention to the moments when the child is persistent in any business or overcomes difficulties. Do not forget to praise him for his tenacity. Tell him: “It really was a challenge, but you did not give up. Well done!”.

To be upset and want to quit a job that has been started is characteristic not only of children, but also of adults. But children grow up, develop their skills and show perseverance and patience. Show your child a good example, be patient and support him.

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